Every year it goes like this.
Teacher- She/He’s such a good student, but so very quiet.
Me- Are you sure you have the right kid? My kid is quiet? Would you like to come home with me? Please…?
What do you get when two introverts have kids? Introverted kids! Brooke is 12 and she’s just now becoming the social butterfly, much to my dismay.
So yesterday it was Zach’s teacher. She had only two concerns. The first was that Zach’s best friend L is out of town this week, and she wasn’t sure how Zach would do. Surprisingly, she said he’s made the effort to choose other partners and has done well! Secondly, she wanted to know if he was scared or intimidated of her. I told her that he’s never mentioned anything like that. Again, she just talked about how quiet and shy he was, and gave the example of him coming up to her desk to ask a question. She said he would stand there quietly, not interrupting if she was doing something, and wait for her to look up. Then he would ask the question very quietly and walk away quickly. Now I think he’s just being respectful with that one, and am proud of him for not just jumping in with his question. Miss D. went on to say that he’s very bright, and a couple of times she’s seen his sense of humor. (He is a very funny kid!)
I always get a kick out of these things, and then I come home and relay to the kids what I heard. Zach just gets a big grin on his face, he’s so cute! What can I say about being shy?